When Will My Ex Contact Me?

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You want to know when your ex will contact you? Then you will need to find out if you are making the mistakes that make your ex want to avoid you like a bad cold. You may not realize it or maybe you are even in denial, but ask yourself if you are doing any of the following:

  • Calling your ex 3 times a day or more
  • Texting your ex several times a day
  • Emailing your ex constantly in the hopes of a reply email
  • Visiting your ex at work or at home
  • Calling your ex's best friends to relay messages
  • Getting your friends to contact your ex for you

Are you guilty of any of the above? If you answered yes, then it is almost certain that you are pestering your ex and he or she has put you on their ignore list. What most people who have had a relationship end don't understand is that after a break up, an ex knows for a fact that you will keep making contact.

They may not realize how hard you have taken the break-up but they know that you will call, text, email, and whatever else it takes to reach them. Since they expect it and when you follow through, they know there is no mad rush to get in contact with you.

You see, your ex will feel like they have the upper hand. They realize that the more you contact them, the more desperate you are and the more you will wait around for them.

The secret is to lay off the heavy contacting. If you have already been doing it, then don't call as often, and eventually stop it all together. After awhile, your ex will wonder what happened. Their curiosity will lead them to think you have moved on, or you have found someone new.

Once your ex is curious enough, he or she will make contact with you. No one likes to know they have been replaced. Stop paying so much attention to your ex and let his/her mind wander for a change.

Lastly, don't make the mistake of sounding desperate by saying the wrong things once you are communicating again. People ruin their chances when they finally get their ex talking again. Don't let this happen to you!

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This article was published on 2010/04/03
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